@Justin,
Wow, you guys certainly didn't make this thread easy to read. If you intended to help other forum users by your posts kennethamy, you failed.
Anyhow, lets first solve the problem of semantics. I don't understand why such a problem was made out of it, words are made by humans and can be twisted by humans, they are, believe it or not, not set in stone.
Now, what I understand boagie was saying is that an action is only taken when it is needed or desired on the primal level, therefore an action translates to a need or desire and fulfilling the need or desire brings a certain "Good" feeling which is, in retrospect, the actual fulfillment of the need or desire which we are not aware of conciously. Sort of like an instinct.
Therefore action, or rather the intention of it (as actions may backfire) exists primarily to help the agent, and only secondly to affect another person or not.
Lets call that "Good" feeling the acquiring of "Psychological/Spiritual Gratification", or in short "PSG". Now, the theory proposed states that each action is subconciously (or unrelated to conciousness at all) motivated by the acquisition of PSG, therefore both "Good", "Bad" and "Neutral" deeds are all performed in the search of PSG. Whether or not PSG is the cause or the effect of the action, it is always the motivator.
There, didn't use the term "Selfish" anywhere, happy?
Furthermore, your argument of boagie not knowing what was in the Fallen SEALS head was ludicrous, you didn't know it either! He might have very well, by your logic atleast, tossed himself on the grenade cause he thought it to be a potato and he was so hungry. Can
you prove this is not the case? What is
not speculation when regarding that example?
PS: boagie, The 2nd chapter (and more if there are any) of "What is Man?" is missing, may you have another link? I've wholeheartedly agreed with the first one, which seems to focus mostly on Determinism rather than this topic though...
EDIT: Here's an excerpt from one of my posts on a different forum of this subject:
Quote:Now we get to your altruistic nature, the "most good with least bad" argument.
Here's some news, true altruism does not infact exist, everything is selfish. Here is the proposed situation:
You're sitting in a buss and an elderly woman enters it at the station. There are no seats left, therefore you let her take yours as you can endure standing anyway. Did you do it solely to help her? Did you not feel good when you did that? Yes, you indeed felt quite good, infact you felt more good than if you kept your seat. It may not seem to you like a selfish act at the time, but it really was. Granted, it benefited both but trust me it was selfish. Furthermore, there is a threshold at which you would be so tired as to recieve more gratification from keeping the seat, yet still the more tired you are the more gratification you would feel if you stood up as well.
Everything you do is selfish cause it:
1. Is an action that represents who you are or want to be.
2. Is an action that benefits you in some way.
I challenge you to name one deed that one can do completely selflessly, one. Everything you do can and is selfish, even if you choose not to do something good for you to spite me, you're doing it to emphasize that you are strong of will, another selfish act.
It all stems from nature really, all instincts are selfish. Animals feed to survive. Animals tend to their offsprings to help improve the chances of their genes get passed on. Everything is selfish in one way or another, throught any life forms, sapient or otherwise.
Infact, the reason people demonize selfishness is purely selfish, to help itself grow in a stable manner. Society has created an elaborate lie, called being "Benevolent" or "Good", when infact you have no reason to be or act so other than you were raised to be this way, therefore believing this to be true, and each action of "Good" in return gives you selfish gratification. I don't believe being "Good" is at all bad (put intended), but don't lie to yourself its any less selfish than simply directly helping just yourself. Granted, being "Good" helps other people as well most of the time, but I reiterate that it still stems from the gratification recieved by the act.
Therefore we come to two conclusions:
1. You are not as righteous as you pass the belief you are, as every act of "Good" you do in turn helps you and the image you created of yourself.
2. Smokers find it a "Good" thing to smoke, as there is no apparent way of doing something that is not helpful to the acting person somehow.
Don't think the fact we have concious awareness and are able to think has any influence on the matter, even with the largest degree of thought involved into doing/not doing an action that is selfish, you still act selfish by the very act as you will recieve gratification for being able to do/not do that action. One can f/ex either share a glass of water with a fellow thirsty person or take it whole for himself, in either way he benefits the same. Ah, but what of Regret? What if he chose to take the whole glass and not share, then after regret his decision? Still selfish, he believes he just wasn't selfish enough as he'd recieve more gratification if both of their thirsts have been sated. One could even say that regret is only experienced when someone was not selfish enough, or in other words, recieves less gratification than he believed he could.
Now one might argue that the gratification comes after the act, therefore the motive is infact selfless, but I don't believe that to be the case as I already stated that there is no (known, prove me wrong please) example of a completely non-selfish deed. Furthermore, as I touched the instinct issue already, its probably within us to be selfish from before we're even born, therefore the prerequisite and motive for all actions is already there.
Just imagine every "selfish" is replaced by the appropriate usage of "PSG". And yes, it was somewhat related to smoking and the other party thinking smokers as sub-human... Just skip anything smoking related.