@kennethamy,
kennethamy wrote:It is not self-serving to sacrifice your life for others. Why should it be? I suspect that what you mean by a self-serving action is that it is a voluntary action rather than one that is compelled. You think that if someone merely wants to do something, that it is self-serving. But that is clearly not true. "Self-serving" and "voluntary" do not mean the same because although all self-serving actions are voluntary actions, not all voluntary actions are self-serving actions. A person may voluntarily give his life for another, but that does not make his action self-serving.
But maybe you will explain why every action is self-serving (I don't mean just "voluntary").
Kennethamy,
The brainstem takes care of most involentary actions, but I think that, that too is in our self-interest. Every action with the acception of a convulsion is willed, the will acts upon a need or desire, the action of which fulfils said will. If it is not absolute it is bloody near it.
I am referring to, in the matter of self-sarifice, Schopenhaur's theory on the foundations of morality. You have not had cause to reference said paper I believe, it is what the opening premise about self-sacrifice was based upon. If in your metaphysics self-sarifice is indeed an utterly selfless deed, and it is done that other people might be happy and this includes complete strangers, it sounds rather straight forward to me.
It is not difficult to see in our everyday actions that their nature is one of self-interest, but even here I find it puzzeling that you do not think there is anything happening in the subject which would modivate said action.Is this make other people happy a prime directive of man? The foundation of compassion is identifing with,the intensity of this process determines the quality you might say of compassion, and degree to which it is realized in action, self-sacrifice would be taking it to its limits.
The way I understand self-sacrifice, particularly for complete strangers is as stated by Schopenhaur, there is a breakthrough. This breakthrough is not a loseing of the self but one of incorporating the other in the concept of self, self includes other. So, in this understanding the hero's action is said to be self-serving.
I remember one such hero when ask why he did not let go of a young man that had attempted jump to his death, he stated if he had of let go he would not have been able to enjoy another day of his life--how come? This man had a job, wife and kids, plans for the future ect..., all that is lost in this moment in which he is taken. This could be understood though your statement that he just wanted the young man to be happy and your prime directive carrys the day,seems really inadequate to me.Time and time again when heros are asked what they were thinking they reply, there was not time for thought,it is an act of the heart not of the head,it is as Schopenhaur stated a metaphysical breakthrough, time and space which normally inform us of our separateness is broken,and you and other are one.