@Mr Fight the Power,
Mr. Fight the Power wrote:Is someone selfish if they are pursuing their own wants?
Only if they do so at the expense of the interests of others (and that has some qualifications I will not go into to here) That is why being selfish is not nice. If I want to go to sleep because I am tired, and it affects no one else (and certainly not adversely) I am not being selfish. It would be bizarre to say I was.
I have already presented a clear example of the mother who leaves two pieces of cake for her two sons. If each takes his own piece of cake, and leaves the other for his brother, there is pursuit of his own want, but he is not being selfish.
If one of them wants not only his own piece of cake, but takes his brother's, then he is pursuing his own want, and he is also being selfish.
That is what the word "selfish" means. Words have meanings. If people could use a word with whatever meaning they please, communication would break down.