@Refus,
Refus wrote:If for instance we don't want something, then it is something we do not want, not even to not want it, presumeably. Since it will allways scare us and we will allways know what we do not want, and to not want something we must know what it is to not want, and if we don't, we don't want to not know what we don't want, cause then we can't avoid it. So the best thing we can do really, is to want that which we do not want, but that can be very hasardous and hence we must want some things
and that which we do not want, we must not want. To not want what we do not want means that you're unhappy, but to want what you want means that you are happy, but since everything has its opposit, you will be equally happy as unhappy all in all. Atleast when you are safe. The less unhappy you are, the more unhappy you may become. So being happy is being unsafe.
So it is logic to not want to not want, but you will die possibly. Basically, it means that no one can really be happy.
So Logic is to not want somthing in one way, just to not want the same somthing in another way?
So in a way, Give the thing's that you desire and want in life to all, and take the thing's that you need in life to live your life the way you want.
People's want's and desire's change, depending on there point of view within a single frame of perceptable time to one's self.
Try to tell in which way's they would not want something, and then tell in which way they would not want to no want something. Same word's but each displaying a difrent action, and thought... Hence one must show in which way's they are difrent, but also in which way's they are the same.
(example-> If you say you dont care, then that mean's you care that you dont care. Hence in one way you dont care, and therefore making you care in another way.)
But you may be happy if you say you are happy, therefore you make your self happy by saying that your happy, and if you say that your not happy or you say that you just think that your happy but your really not, you would just make your self not happy because you say your not, or another person say's your not, and in doing so make's you not happy.
(Thing's are only what you make ,or say they are, Therefore they are what they are, and that's what you say or make)