@AtheistDeity,
I am thoroughly enjoying this dialog. I am sure Bin had no idea of what a simple thought would lead do, regardless of the motivation behind Bin's exclamation. IMO, I don't think any of us were meant to have "that much" control over all that is manifested by our individual being. Furthermore I don't think, considering the "perfect creation we are" we were meant to consciously try and control who we are, but we have been forced to as a result of the fear of "alienation". One word at the wrong time can have "everlasting affects". No one wants to be alienated and we try so very hard to fit it even if it goes against our "best instincts".
I have racked my brain trying to determine what it is about us as human beings that compels us to feel a sense of, believe it or not "excitement", as we witness unfortunate occurrences happen to "other" people. If most of you are honest with yourselves you will agree this is true. When you are driving down he road and notice an accident ahead, it's not near as exciting to witness all involved are completely safe and alive, as it would be if there were a couple of eyeballs hanging on the fender. Be honest now. Why is that?
Just like ARI's example of poor Jack and Jill's tray mishap. It could be Jack, had the situation been reversed and he had been seated in the cafeteria, would have been one of those laughing spectators, and could relate to laughter, while Jill would have been one to rush up and offer aid to the "wreck victim's" as she felt an empathy perhaps due to an event in her own personal experience. The horror of the story is the "laughter itself".
It was the "popular" thing to do, not the right thing to do. Of course there were not only those who laughed, but there would have been those who followed the food as it went flying through the air to see if any of it could be salvaged. Ha. We are an odd lot.
It would be ideal if we could venture through this world with a lot less scrutiny as we are judged by others as they determine so very shallowly by noting only the cover, while never considering the content that lies beneath.
So I guess what I am saying we are trying too hard to control who we are and we shouldn't have to because in that scenario, when we do make a "wrong choice" in the presence of "our peers" we have a tendency to take it much too seriously and beat ourselves up as we exclaim, "I should have known better" but in the scenario ARI proposed, in the mind of Jill, it could have been construed as a matter of fate as she could have easily blamed God for bringing her such shame.
As ARI so astutely made us aware of all the "physical anomalies" that could have taken place requiring Lithium and God know what else to help young Jill's "troubled" mind, the horror of it could have been easily turned into a redeeming life experience had "no one" laughed and all had rushed to aid the "victim's". Talk about turning lemon's into lemonade.
William