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A good person would be one who has everything you would want a person to have: integrity, authenticity, responsibility, honesty, empathy, compassion, kindness, etc. Such an individual would be morally good. He or she would possess morality. For "morality" may be defined as: Moral value.
Well there must not be any good people then, because I have never met anyone like described above. If there is such persons, they are so incredibly rare.
On a side note, it is great to define all these things, but you completely miss an aspect of human nature. A good person might be one who only wants enough for themselves to survive and allow others their fair share. But there are people who don't want to be good. They would rather be "better" than the good person. In their mind, better would mean, having more, higher stature, a lofty position, the ability to rule over everyone else. This is not selfishness this is due to a superiority complex.
All it takes is for someone to say, I don't want to eat animals and neither should you! To make the above stuff no longer work. Because the person who is protesting is trying to force their belief onto the rest of society.
Well there must not be any good people then, because I have never met anyone like described above. If there is such persons, they are so incredibly rare.
On a side note, it is great to define all these things, but you completely miss an aspect of human nature.... there are people who don't want to be good. ... To make the above stuff no longer work. Because the person who is ... trying to force their belief onto the rest of society.
As to your first paragraph, that description I offered of "the good person" is an ideal to reach for. It is a possible self-image a person can hold and aspire to. It is a cluster of traits that have moral value when fulfilled by being put into practice -- some of them, or all of them.
It is entirely up to an individual if he or she wants to be a good person.
Regarding your "side note", as you can see from my other posts, I am well aware of the existence of those whose ideal is power, of the greedy (who make making money their hightest value) of deviants, perverts, the perverse, the tyrants, the psychopaths, the sociopaths and other types of immorality: I didn't miss that aspect.
In essence you are setting the goal for every individual to achieve, right?
What I am saying, is that you are implying that people will accept this goal?
Yes and since this is the case, you can't find a truly good person because the above person I describe doesn't make for an environment conductive enough for such a person to exist in. This is why I can not find anyone who fits your definition of what is good.
...What you call immorality, I call human behavior. We are constantly in conflict with this type of behavior, we must learn from a young age that cooperation is better than destroying opposition. A young child could have the idea that if it kills all its piers it could have everything to itself. But what is lost by killing everyone in opposition? You lose the ability to have cooperation.
Even a tyrant knows he must have some allies, even though he may never trust his allies, he knows he can't exist without them. A tyrant can never stand alone because there will be more opposition than he could defend against.
You will NEVER be able to get people to NEVER have the idea to NEVER dominate another. Call me negative, but we are built towards this motivation, it is society that makes us blunt and dull to act upon it.
own true self-interest and if someone wants to optimize the amount of value in his life then he will listen to the insights of that body of accumulated knowledge known as Ethics, which tells him how to be morally healthy
That person is one who educates himself, or herself, to do what is truly in his self-interest and who is able to see that "selfishness" is something distinctly different than "self-interest."
I don't think it's very reasonable to distinguish selfishness from self-interestedness. The reason (some people, to varying degrees) have evolved to be unselfish is not because doing unselfish things is self-interested, but because being the sort of person whose character naturally tends toward unselfishness is rewarding. If people feel you are by nature an unselfish person, people will tend to love you better, which is rewarding. And being by nature an unselfish person tends to make people think you are by nature an unselfish person.
I think that mostly people are only naturally unselfish in just ways, i.e., they are unselfish in advancing beauty (more in the Greek sense of kalos than in the sense of the English word).
Granted there is also a kind of unselfishness that is akin to being a team player, but there is a higher unselfishness than that. Do people who fall in love only do so after applying game theory? Not much, it is for beauty (of which goodness is the major part) that one loves, and this beauty can be judged by sensitive people before having performed experiments or games.
Perhaps it might seem superstitious to believe people often are so sensitive toward moral character that morality can be judged without having performed games or direct tests of behavior. I shall explain why it is not. The reason people are sufficiently sensitive toward goodness is that the most important love is in the mating sphere. A male who tricks a woman into unjustly freely having children with him or a female who tricks a male into caring for their children more than she deserves may get extra children, but they will be by an insensitive person. Thus, although people who fake moral virtue in order to be loved more unselfishly may have more children, they will be by insensitive faked mates, who will tend to pass this insensitivity genetically to their children. There is no way for a bad person to use his badness to get sensitive children. Accordingly, there is a strong correlation between insensitivity toward moral character and deceptive immorality. And sensitivity is easy to judge--one needs only judge the extent to which another understands oneself. The strong correlation between sensitivity and true moral virtue enables moral character to be judged fairly well by good people. Mostly, I can tell pretty much after looking at a girl for a few seconds whether it is likely I would love her or not, and I'm sure others also can mostly correctly size up moral character fast without requiring a great deal of data.
Hi,
I know people who think a good person is simply one who believes in God (their view of God) and prays to God everyday - all the time. Didn't matter much what you did the rest of the day. It was a very simple approach to calibrating goodness. Can't argue with them, if that is how they feel. Good, I guess, is in the eyes of the beholder, and sometimes can be very simple.
Rich
Hi Rich:
There are still people around today, I'll bet, who believe the Earth is flat. Does that make it so?
WHAT I LEARNED FROM STANFORD UNIVERSITY'S PHILOSOPHERS ABOUT CHARACTER AND ADAPTED INTO MY OWN MODEL FOR ETHICS-AS-A-DISCIPLINE
Anscombe in 1958, drawing largely from Aristotle, called attention to these concepts (among others): moral character, moral education, moral wisdom or discernment, friendship and family relationships, a deep concept of happiness, the role of the emotions in our moral life and the fundamentally important questions of what sort of person I should be and how I should live.