@onetwopi,
onetwopi;160211 wrote:This assumes that common ideas are good. Sometimes, isn't it better to disagree? To share different mental pictures with each other?
Me too.
Yes this is true it is better to sometimes debate than blindly accept.
And the best family unit will teach you how to disagree and still be believable.
But we still all need to sit down around a table or information source and actually be available to each other for the debate to occur.
I do wish my family had been better equipped in the debate of things, but i will gladly settle for a fabulous imagination that we all shared.
We would make our own storries, next episodes, prequals and sequals.
My family have trained me with such an imagination i dont always know what to do with the overflow of it.
My dad was always honestly critical of the art works we all engaged in, my brother is a better artist and designer for my dads honesty.
But it was my dads art that inspired us all to become artists in one form or another.
And my dads training in what he knew that makes my big brother one of the best artists i have ever known, even if he is currently dedicated elsewhere.
So yes it is good to not all be commonly idealistic but if you dont learn a worhty ideal from your family who else can teach you but the individualised?
I think the main and possibly only thing a family has to have in common is goal orientated.
A family needs to be common in achievment.
A family that can do this is what humanity is all about.
The definition and realisation of shared dreams.
And the best family will teach you how not just to survive but how to thrive.