@Cookie 2,
Sadly, the 18 year old Shillander who supposedly posted and said that this site was a joke, also died in his early 2os in a hiking accident: Joshua Shillander. Joshua was the baby that the dad, Richard had with his girlfriend; he was shown in the 20/20 video documentary..So he was 1/2 brother to Vivian's children. Such a sad story all the way around.