@SJoseph,
In my opinion, love and lust have absolutely nothing in common; as a matter of a fact they are "more" opposites of each other. Love in the public domain is different than lust in the public domain, of which, IMO, lust runs rampant as it relates to heterosexuality and in some areas homosexuality as well.
I will agree there are some behaviors that have been ever present in the public domain that show affection such as holding hands between members of the opposite sex. That has been understood and accepted for thousands of years by the large majority of the human beings on this planet. IMO, it is a part of a natural process and that is "why" it is considered natural. I would want my child to be "exposed" to that natural, innocent show of affection as I would indeed offer that kind of "public affection" to his Mother/my wife as well, as I held her hand and kissed her on the cheek.
Now having said that, let me also reiterate the use of two words that have become "politically incorrect": NATURAL and MAJORITY in lieu of "minority rights" over "majority rules" issuing there is no such thing as "natural" opening the door to all things considered "un-natural" by that majority to be null and void in the public domain. The public domain being that domain in which our children are exposed to also including television, and the internet both which are rampant with lust and little love, IMO.
As I have said and do repeat, what two consenting "adults" (and I use the term adults extremely loose here) engage in sexually in their private domain, far and away from the eyes of a child in all cases is a matter for them only such as can be defined as that deep desire of a man for a woman, or those who choose hot man on man action or woman to woman. In all cases the public domain should be "child friendly" if even it it means giving up such innocent displays as holding hands between young boys and girls that has always been considered "natural" in lieu of the sexual mores or lusts such "alternative thinking" find no problem with in that public domain.
As to why, I would like to offer an opinion realizing there are and will be exceptions but by and large it has everything to do with the absence of the love of a Father to a son in their young years coupled with, who only knows what abuse that could have taken place for we all, male and female, have a tendency to mentally block those abuses out of our consciousness though they are "sub-consciously" still there and could be presented in and a part of our perception and personality.
L. Ron Hubbard interpretated this subconsciousness as the "reactive" mind and those experiences are what he called "engrams" and auditing that mind would allow an individual to seek that "devil", he called it, and face it and therefore eliminating it which would result in a person becoming a "clear". I think he quoted it, "...if there is an evil in this world, it is the engram", if I am not mistaken.
Personally anyone attempting to manipulate my mind does not fall in favor with me, but I have no idea of what others, in their life, have been subjected to and if Hubbard is right, neither do they as they have "blocked it out". If there are dangers to this "bio-feedback" process, if that is what it is, I don't know? But if it is close to the mark, it would explain a lot not only as it relates to being homosexual, but many other behaviors also. Again, in my opinion and trying to tie up looes ends in MY mind.
William