@glasstrees,
"But if our memories were different the now would be different becuase It would result in a differnt now for the memories to work in. "
That is the point.
Reality is that i experience things.
Maybe my future-model or better say 'future me' is already created now and i am just choosing the way i want to get to her.
Maybe she will be something i will create now. And when i re-read my sentences i see that both are same things.
If i can, one day, clean my head from the idea of 'today' and see everything as a total, i can answer the question about how different it would be not just to be aware of it but how would i be like?