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It think it is ironic in todays politically correct society, when a woman becomes pregnant it's; "We're pregnant". But when she decides to abort, it's "her" baby and it's her body. When in fact that baby does not belong to her. That child belongs to both the mother and the father. See what tangle webs we weave.....!
William
Yes, but it's her body. And I think most of us can agree on that our society puts the responsebility of a child on the mother. (And I think that it usually "Im' pregnant")
"How come it should not be your concern?"
because it isn't...that's all the reason 'i' need
"Why should you not care?"
again: because 'i' don't
"Why does there have to be a relationship for you to care?"
that's one of 'my' criteria...i'm sure you have your own
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"Hey Quirk, if you don't care about anything then why are you in a philosophy forum?"
where did i post that i don't care about anything?
please: direct me to the post or posts #'s
as for why i'm here: to discuss and debate...same reason as you, i'm guessing
The unborn child's body isn't the body of the mother.
Yes, but it's her body. And I think most of us can agree on that our society puts the responsebility of a child on the mother. (And I think that it usually "Im' pregnant")
i too had always wondered why the father had no rights in the case of a woman wanting to have an abortion. i guess if you believe the foetus is part of the woman's body then you think the father is nothing. do people really believe that? i cant imagine a doctor saying that...
another question i had was, assuming we will agree to the fact that human beings have souls and are more than their physical body, when do they think the soul comes into the body? after birth? three months after conception?
i am also really interested about your observation, william, that " We do not have the answers yet to universally define the roles of man and woman. We are still discovering those." i definitely totally agree with that. that could be a whole new thread...i also agree that this problem is behind a lot of other problems in society, everywhere in the world, not just in the west.
I don't know why I am bothering...Sure it is. The unborn cannot survive outside the mother's body before it fully developed. Without modern technology to keep premature babies alive, they would die.
The father doesnt carry the child and most of the time it's the woman who is it's primary carer, because of this and that she's carrying it, it's her decision. If it were men who carried it then it wuld be exactly the same-it would be their decision, it's not a question of rights, it's a question of what's best for everyone. Bo has failed to include what is best for the mother, more or less saying she's got no rights and noone has got the right to say that.
i too had always wondered why the father had no rights in the case of a woman wanting to have an abortion. i guess if you believe the foetus is part of the woman's body then you think the father is nothing. do people really believe that? i cant imagine a doctor saying that...
another question i had was, assuming we will agree to the fact that human beings have souls and are more than their physical body, when do they think the soul comes into the body? after birth? three months after conception?
i am also really interested about your observation, william, that " We do not have the answers yet to universally define the roles of man and woman. We are still discovering those." i definitely totally agree with that. that could be a whole new thread...i also agree that this problem is behind a lot of other problems in society, everywhere in the world, not just in the west.
irony was not intended, william
i mean simply this: the death of a stranger is not my concern because 'it is not my concern'...as i see: strangers die all the time...in accidents, through violence, in war, and in sleep
i should care for them all?
again: irony was not intended
The father doesnt carry the child and most of the time it's the woman who is it's primary carer, because of this and that she's carrying it, it's her decision. If it were men who carried it then it wuld be exactly the same-it would be their decision, it's not a question of rights, it's a question of what's best for everyone. Bo has failed to include what is best for the mother, more or less saying she's got no rights and noone has got the right to say that. Nor has anyone got the right to force a woman to carry a child for nine months because they are the father or because of thier beliefs. If a father is going to force the mother to carry the child because he is the father then he should have been more responsible and not got her pregnant in the first place. What if the mother wants to keep it but the father doesnt, are you going to force her to abort because you think you have to include what the father wants or do you change the rules again to suit your beliefs aswell as ignoring the womans rights and ignoring or not bothering to research how these women feel to gain a perspective and insight.
The key is prevention-not to get pregnant in the first place but accidents happen, noone wants to go through an abortion it is often the last resort, the hardest decision and pain for the rest of ones life and people dont need others shoving their beliefs down your throat when your going through such a traumatic experience. Prevention.
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re:william, birth control is both peoples responsibiliy. If I were a man i'd be wearing a condom, i wouldnt be taking any chances. I dont know where you get this idea that it is soley the womans responsibity, because it is both. The act takes two, two people are responsible, i think its a bit of a cop out to say anything else such as it is the womans responsibilty only. You say its the womans responsibility to get pregnant, who gets her pregnant!?????? She cant get pregnant on her own can she so its not her responsibility entirely, is it!!!! Cop out. It takes two people to impregnate a woman therefore two peopl are responsible making it two peoples responsibilty to prevent it, im sorry i dont believe its all on the womans shoulders i think that is a cop out.
And saying abortin is a method for birth control is the most ridiculas horrifying thing you can say, i cant believe someone has actualy said that, it doesnt even warrant a response, ignorance is prevailant in this thread, yes i think i'd rather have an abortion then use any other form of birth control, i think i can have unprotected sex whenever because i can just nip down the hospital after work and get it sucked out of me blah blah blah, you really have no idea do you. I advise you all to go away and do your research. Apart from the medical implications of having one abortion let alone using it as a form of birth control, (which it isnt is it?), the trauma surrounding it, well i couldnt imagine anyone thinking, "ah well dont worry about contraception love, i'll just nip down the hospital when i've finished shopping". Have you actually done any research? Any of you?
And noone has addressed the point i made about what if the father wants to abort but the mother doesnt, again do your rules change? Are his rights not included now because it doesnt tie in with your beliefs? If you want to talk about rights then you must include everyones no matter what the scenario. Its all very hypocrtical and hypthetical with no actual real research included to substantiate any of your points.