@hue-man,
hue-man;59302 wrote:If by cynical you mean an attitude of scornful negativity, then I also don't believe that you are cynical in this regard. You're just using anthropological facts to aid you in the study of ethics.
That's what I meant.
But I'm not sure if I consider that a study of ethics.
I was expressing my impression of the nature of happiness, and not whether that makes it good or bad.
If you want to hear my opinion on the ethical aspect of it, I would say happiness has little to do with right or wrong.
hue-man;59302 wrote:Do you think that reproducing is a major part of being happy, because I'm not so sure that I want any children?
Hard question. As a quick answer, yes, that's pretty much the reason you are here. But I'm not arguing that it's a responsibility, I'm explaining why humans should want it.
Of course it will bring obligations and make ones life harder. So if you only count pure day to day happiness, having children means a decrease in happiness. There was
a study recently, that showed that couples are happier if they didn't have kids. But life is not about just maximizing pleasure, that leads to apathy. It's about getting to do the hard things, that are the most rewarding.
This simple pleasure calculation is like saying, if you don't climb Mount Everest, you have less frostbites, so you are happier. Which is true, but I bet once you stand on the top and look down, you're quite happy you did it.