Boredom

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Reply Sun 18 Apr, 2010 03:15 pm
I am bored tonight,
It does not assist me,

So thought i would open a thread on boredom.

I do not always think it is activity based, you can have much to do and still be bored.

So what to do if one has boredom?

Is it a need to try harder or try something different?
(I dont see how becuase tomorrow i will probably be here and not bored)
(i have many interests and just 'cant be bothered')
Is it the need to rest or is it the need to be lazy?

Insert interseting question here, i am even to bored to find any.

Boredom the cure of the affliction? the affliction of the cure?

Do you think over stimulation can lead to the disinterest? rise then fall?
(could it be physical?)

How can you stay interested all the time?
 
Wisdom Seeker
 
Reply Sun 18 Apr, 2010 03:30 pm
@sometime sun,
interest and boredom are the only 2 rooms to escape with:
if you are bored you find interest
if you are interested you find boredom

---------- Post added 04-18-2010 at 04:36 PM ----------

Just follow this step:

A --> B --> C (Cycle)

---------- Post added 04-18-2010 at 04:43 PM ----------

lets imagine you are playing with boredom. he will try to catch you and you will try to run away from him.
Imagine you go to interest A
as boredom enters it
Go to interest B and
as boredom enters it
Go to interest C and
as boredom enters it
Go back again to interest A
Where the presence of boredom is totally gone

just repeat the cycle, boredom cannot catch you.

---------- Post added 04-18-2010 at 04:53 PM ----------

So what to do if one has boredom?
- then escape it
Is it a need to try harder or try something different?
- go to place where he is not present
Is it the need to rest or is it the need to be lazy?
- depends on you, you are trying to escape boredom right? then go the place where he is not present.
Boredom the cure of the affliction? the affliction of the cure?
- the affliction of the cure, you will not escape to him if not.
Do you think over stimulation can lead to the disinterest? rise then fall?
- boredom forever haunts you, if you stay their for too long, the more boredom will be nearer with you, the only choice is to escape out of his presence and that is to find more interest.
How can you stay interested all the time?
- he haunts for you forever then run out of his presence forever.
 
platorepublic
 
Reply Sun 18 Apr, 2010 03:59 pm
@sometime sun,
Tackling boredom (my way) (without too much philosophical thought):

- facebook (used to be, now quit it for examination reasons)
- blogs on the nets
- cooking and eating good food
- constantly listening to music and dancing and singing to it
- hanging out with friends
- going out to enjoy the sun or the rain
- doing sports by myself or friends
- having a nap
- fantasise about people and things (lol, how embarrassing!)
- do jumping jacks (very rare do I do it)
- do revision (for exams, if you are at school or university)
- do homework (if you are at school or university)
- do work (if you are working)
- go shopping (online or otherwise)
- decide to randomly travel right now (far far away, preferably into another country)
- read (preferably philosophy and/or arts)
- eat vitamins

and my favourite of all:

- blindfold your crush and hug them from behind for 10 seconds and then tell them you love them and then quietly walk away

Smile

You see, I am rarely bored.
 
bmcreider
 
Reply Mon 19 Apr, 2010 12:32 pm
@sometime sun,
This will come off as an arrogant claim, but I am never bored. From my perspective, the notion that bored people are boring people seems to have a truth to it. I know some people with seemingly well functioning minds and less physical limitations (money, time) than me, yet are bored much more often. Some people are bored more than they are interested. That is sad.

You were thrown into this amazingly incomprehensible world as one of many end products of billions of years of evolution, many years of civilization, struggle, war, history, technology, art, and humanity putting the final emphasis on the "batter's swing" that sent you flying too fast for your eyes to keep up (aka life) - and you are bored?

I feel empathy for all kinds of human suffering. Boredom, I am sorry to say, has never been one of them.
 
kennethamy
 
Reply Mon 19 Apr, 2010 12:37 pm
@platorepublic,
platorepublic;153703 wrote:
Tackling boredom (my way) (without too much philosophical thought):

- facebook (used to be, now quit it for examination reasons)
- blogs on the nets
- cooking and eating good food
- constantly listening to music and dancing and singing to it
- hanging out with friends
- going out to enjoy the sun or the rain
- doing sports by myself or friends
- having a nap
- fantasise about people and things (lol, how embarrassing!)
- do jumping jacks (very rare do I do it)
- do revision (for exams, if you are at school or university)
- do homework (if you are at school or university)
- do work (if you are working)
- go shopping (online or otherwise)
- decide to randomly travel right now (far far away, preferably into another country)
- read (preferably philosophy and/or arts)
- eat vitamins

and my favourite of all:

- blindfold your crush and hug them from behind for 10 seconds and then tell them you love them and then quietly walk away

Smile

You see, I am rarely bored.


Good for you...........

---------- Post added 04-19-2010 at 02:40 PM ----------

Wisdom Seeker;153681 wrote:
interest and boredom are the only 2 rooms to escape with:
if you are bored you find interest
if you are interested you find boredom

---------- Post added 04-18-2010 at 04:36 PM ----------

Just follow this step:

A --> B --> C (Cycle)

---------- Post added 04-18-2010 at 04:43 PM ----------

lets imagine you are playing with boredom. he will try to catch you and you will try to run away from him.
Imagine you go to interest A
as boredom enters it
Go to interest B and
as boredom enters it
Go to interest C and
as boredom enters it
Go back again to interest A
Where the presence of boredom is totally gone

just repeat the cycle, boredom cannot catch you.

---------- Post added 04-18-2010 at 04:53 PM ----------

So what to do if one has boredom?
- then escape it
Is it a need to try harder or try something different?
- go to place where he is not present
Is it the need to rest or is it the need to be lazy?
- depends on you, you are trying to escape boredom right? then go the place where he is not present.
Boredom the cure of the affliction? the affliction of the cure?
- the affliction of the cure, you will not escape to him if not.
Do you think over stimulation can lead to the disinterest? rise then fall?
- boredom forever haunts you, if you stay their for too long, the more boredom will be nearer with you, the only choice is to escape out of his presence and that is to find more interest.
How can you stay interested all the time?
- he haunts for you forever then run out of his presence forever.


This country should have draft.
 
fast
 
Reply Mon 19 Apr, 2010 12:57 pm
@kennethamy,
[QUOTE=kennethamy;154065]This country should have draft.[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't go that far. Just mandatory boot camp with legalized mental and physical abuse--with limits, of course. We're tryin' to help 'em, not kill 'em.
 
TuringEquivalent
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 01:07 am
@sometime sun,
sometime sun;153673 wrote:
I am bored tonight,
It does not assist me,

So thought i would open a thread on boredom.

I do not always think it is activity based, you can have much to do and still be bored.

So what to do if one has boredom?

Is it a need to try harder or try something different?
(I dont see how becuase tomorrow i will probably be here and not bored)
(i have many interests and just 'cant be bothered')
Is it the need to rest or is it the need to be lazy?

Insert interseting question here, i am even to bored to find any.

Boredom the cure of the affliction? the affliction of the cure?

Do you think over stimulation can lead to the disinterest? rise then fall?
(could it be physical?)

How can you stay interested all the time?


In no particular order:
interracial porn, ******* some girl, bookstore, friends to talk to.
 
jeeprs
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 03:41 am
@sometime sun,
Boredom is simply a form of craving. Our consumer society covertly encourages the feeling of boredom, because if you are bored you are more likely to buy something, seek out entertainment, or contribute to the consumer economy in some way. Whereas if you don't need entertainment and are content with life's simple joys, you're less likely to be part of what the marketing types would ID as a 'target demographic'.

---------- Post added 04-21-2010 at 07:43 PM ----------

kennethamy;154065 wrote:
This country should have draft.


you have enough trouble re-integrating volunteers....
 
wayne
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 04:01 am
@sometime sun,
I find myself getting bored with things from time to time. Usually I can simply find something else to do. There is always something to learn, some new path to explore, new people to meet. The only time boredom is a problem is when I am too lazy to do anything about it, and then there's always that nap to take.

Jeeprs is right about our consumer society, most people want to be, demand to be, entertained. From the moment they awake, til the time they sleep. People want to be entertained, and when the new wears off they want something else.
I like it that way, personally, it means the road less traveled is rarely crowded.
 
jeeprs
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 04:25 am
@wayne,
wayne;154780 wrote:

I like it that way, personally, it means the road less traveled is rarely crowded.


Very nicely said.

---------- Post added 04-21-2010 at 08:29 PM ----------

saying that, I too have often wrestled with boredom. It used to be a major issue for me when I was younger, so I don't want to sound like I am speaking from some high and mighty cloud. All things considered, I am working too hard for boredom to be a possibility now, but I can imagine that for some people and some circumstances, it can be a real problem. Nevertheless I will stick with my initial impulse. If you can learn to see boredom as basically the desire for stimulation or for a change of state then I am sure there are many positive ways it can be beaten.

---------- Post added 04-21-2010 at 08:31 PM ----------

platorepublic;153703 wrote:

You see, I am rarely bored.


Interesting that the relationship between being bored, and being boring, can be asymetric.:bigsmile:
 
kennethamy
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 06:22 am
@jeeprs,
jeeprs;154776 wrote:
Boredom is simply a form of craving. Our consumer society covertly encourages the feeling of boredom, because if you are bored you are more likely to buy something, seek out entertainment, or contribute to the consumer economy in some way. Whereas if you don't need entertainment and are content with life's simple joys, you're less likely to be part of what the marketing types would ID as a 'target demographic'.

---------- Post added 04-21-2010 at 07:43 PM ----------



you have enough trouble re-integrating volunteers....


Where did you get that idea? And what would that have to do with it, anyway?
 
bmcreider
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 10:59 am
@wayne,
wayne;154780 wrote:
I find myself getting bored with things from time to time. Usually I can simply find something else to do. There is always something to learn, some new path to explore, new people to meet. The only time boredom is a problem is when I am too lazy to do anything about it, and then there's always that nap to take.

Jeeprs is right about our consumer society, most people want to be, demand to be, entertained. From the moment they awake, til the time they sleep. People want to be entertained, and when the new wears off they want something else.
I like it that way, personally, it means the road less traveled is rarely crowded.


Yes it is a problem, boredom, that business thrives on. The new seems to wear off quicker and quicker, too. Nice points in your post.
 
Jebediah
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 11:43 am
@sometime sun,
If you are happy and content, then just sitting around isn't boring. I think you have to be a bit unhappy to be bored. So there's two solutions:

1) Find something to do that occupies your time.
2) Become more happy and content

Number 1 is easy, but unsatisfying at the end of the day. Number 2 works way better, but is much more difficult.

Try for number 2.
 
sometime sun
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 11:51 am
@Jebediah,
Jebediah;154900 wrote:
If you are happy and content, then just sitting around isn't boring. I think you have to be a bit unhappy to be bored. So there's two solutions:

1) Find something to do that occupies your time.
2) Become more happy and content

Number 1 is easy, but unsatisfying at the end of the day. Number 2 works way better, but is much more difficult.

Try for number 2.

I'm looking into volunteer work as we speak, thanks, what you say is absolutely true.
Although my contentment is something i will always hope for but understand i am not allowed. YET?
 
wayne
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 02:31 pm
@sometime sun,
I believe a lot of our problems, like boredom, really just come down to one thing. Personal responsibility, we live in a society that has been geared to look for the quick fix. To realise my responsibility, in the matter of my life, is empowering.

This experience I am having right now, this very moment, is my life. Whether I choose to enjoy it, is entirely up to me.
 
sometime sun
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 02:36 pm
@wayne,
wayne;154975 wrote:
I believe a lot of our problems, like boredom, really just come down to one thing. Personal responsibility, we live in a society that has been geared to look for the quick fix. To realise my responsibility, in the matter of my life, is empowering.

This experience I am having right now, this very moment, is my life. Whether I choose to enjoy it, is entirely up to me.

Boredom is your own responsibility, could'nt agree with you more.

But is happiness or even contentment your own responsibility?
 
Khethil
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 03:29 pm
@sometime sun,
Take a walk, go for a drive, go knock on your friend's dusty door and say "How are you?", tend your yard, read a book, fix something that's broken, break something whose usefulness is gone, turn off your lights and light a candle, shut off your computer, go pet your cat or dog-if you don't have one, go adopt!, walk along your street and pick up the trash, go downtown and watch people-imagining how each might be thinking, wait till nighttime and alone in your yard count the stars, clean up a closet, arrange your garage, grab some bread from your cabinet and go find some birds to feed, go fishing-or just hang your feet in the water, find a tree and climb it just to remember what it felt like, dig a hold and fill it up again, see how long you can go-to stimulate your mind-without any computer, television or electronics, find a pond, river or lake and skip stones, go outside and look at a bird then come back in and try to figure out what kind it is-from where it comes or goes, etc.
 
sometime sun
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 04:04 pm
@Khethil,
Khethil;154992 wrote:
Take a walk, go for a drive, go knock on your friend's dusty door and say "How are you?", tend your yard, read a book, fix something that's broken, break something whose usefulness is gone, turn off your lights and light a candle, shut off your computer, go pet your cat or dog-if you don't have one, go adopt!, walk along your street and pick up the trash, go downtown and watch people-imagining how each might be thinking, wait till nighttime and alone in your yard count the stars, clean up a closet, arrange your garage, grab some bread from your cabinet and go find some birds to feed, go fishing-or just hang your feet in the water, find a tree and climb it just to remember what it felt like, dig a hold and fill it up again, see how long you can go-to stimulate your mind-without any computer, television or electronics, find a pond, river or lake and skip stones, go outside and look at a bird then come back in and try to figure out what kind it is-from where it comes or goes, etc.

So boredom is lazyness?
 
Khethil
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 05:23 pm
@sometime sun,
sometime sun;155000 wrote:
So boredom is lazyness?


Absolutely not! Boredom (to me) is the resulting condition when I simply don't know what to do. It's just at times like this that asking others - as you've done - is awesome therapy.

But no, I was just on a roll for different things to do that involve engaging the world and living outside of computers and TV.
 
wayne
 
Reply Wed 21 Apr, 2010 06:02 pm
@sometime sun,
sometime sun;154979 wrote:
Boredom is your own responsibility, could'nt agree with you more.

But is happiness or even contentment your own responsibility?


True happiness and contentment is not, having what we want, it's wanting what we have. A life to experience.
 
 

 
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