@Deckard,
Deckard;141795 wrote:Yeah I think there's a little bit of a hospital here too, an apothecary, a therapist. Sometimes we are looking for a cure for ourselves, sometimes for someone else and generally the later implies the former.
This reminds me of a short song I wrote a while back:
This goes for everyone;
I may enjoy the walk here, but ultimately i am here for you, to seek, greet, meet you.
I am not as interested in me finding me as i am in me finding you.
I suppose this is still self interest but it is you that makes me interested and even interesting.
As for you finding me, well that is just not up to me no matter how hard i may or not try to be found or shine.
If you cant find or see me why should it bother me? The fact is it shouldn't even if it still does.
Does this make me vain, or you just blind?
Doesn't matter if my reason is just to see or make you shine.
Catch some of your light, make of you mine.
---------- Post added 03-21-2010 at 06:59 AM ----------
A question would be, is it more or less selfish or selfless to expect more from others than you do of your self?
As long as i give enough of myself should i expect anything in return?
Is what we give and get free?
Do we not owe ourselves to each other?
Do we not own ourselves because of each other?
---------- Post added 03-21-2010 at 07:10 AM ----------
It is a catch 22, if selfless is what serves you by you serving, are you still not self serving therefore selfish?
Is not the purer state of selflessness to give to nobody or even to give to nobody but yourself?
I think i just proved selfishness and selflessness dont exist or that only selfishness does or only selflssness does.
But i think i just proved that both cannot?