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I am for Hope and I don't think Hope has to come in the form of a pill.
Expert or not, I'm going to say it: Pharmaceuticals are NEVER the ONLY cure for depression. .
Any thoughts on prevention prothero? e.g. various lifestyle choices: diet, exercise, and environmental factors: chemicals, television, work environment might lead to depression. And I would think that people who have some feature that sets them apart from the crowd (race, religion, disability etc) or for some other reason have been isolated and denied full membership in social groups would be more suseptible. Maybe I'm stating the obvious here but those are some of the reasons I get mad at the comercials that say "depression is caused by a chemical imbalance" or "depression is a disease".
There is so much more going on that effects our brains. The brain is not a closed system with some chemicals sloshing around in it that occasionally get "out of balance". It is an open system with many many variables many of which I don't think are adequately considered in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of of Mental Disorders for example. I haven't spent much time with said manual but I know it changes with every edition. So that's another thing: the definition of depression is still evolving. Granted, it's science but it's not like solving a physics equation where you solve for x for patient y and sometimes find out yep, sure enough x = depression for patient y. Advertisers and doctors and patients shouldn't pretend that it is.
Expert or not, I'm going to say it: Pharmaceuticals are NEVER the ONLY cure for depression.
Most people who are depressed are not being realistic.
That is true with severe clinical depression. However, check out the studies concerning mild to moderate depression -- google "depressive realism". Mild to moderately (depending on how one defines "moderately") depressed people score higher than "normal" control subjects.
From what I remember of those studies, depressed people score more accurately when asked about their abilities etc, but not because they are being realistic, but because they are thinking "I suck". Well, not in those words exactly. Essentially, it's an irrational process that can lead to greater accuracy in some cases.
So, they can report their driving ability more accurately than a happy person, but don't have a realistic perception on the whole.
Perhaps it depends on what is being despaired of and thus what the object of hope is but in general I think the word "despair" represents a horrible state of mind that should always be avoided.
For example if I were to say "Well, the only appropriate thing for someone like you to do now is to just allow yourself to fall into a deep despair." or "My advice to you is to just abandon all hope right now because nothing will ever save you." at best such statements would be sarcastic, at worst they are sadistic.
However, in this day and age it may be best to keep some of your most precious hopes secret where the rabble can't pick away at them or until a time and place when you are strong enough to defend them.
So, as a counselor or comforter, what is your reasoning, and more importantly, what do you say to:
a) someone whose spouse, or child, or self, has just been diagnosed with a terminal disease which gives them about 6 to 12 months of increasing pain and extreme debility;
b) someone whose spouse or child has just tragically died;
c) someone whose entire family has just died, and this person is at least partially at fault (I've seen this one -- a wife and 4 children and he was driving the car);
d) someone whose child has been missing for 1 year? 2? 3? more?
e) two elderly grandparents sitting in the pediatric intensive care waiting room when the doctor comes in and informs them the final EEG was flat, time to pull the plug on a precious 5 year old grandson they've been raising -- clue: you know and they know the odds are they'll be dead before the agony and despair abate. (Yes, I've seen this one, too.)
f) your brother/son was killed in Iraq (in my day, it was Viet Nam) -- friendly fire -- this person was against the war, as are you
g) you're working in a horrible third world area where, honestly, most of the children are going to die of starvation as their parents helplessly watch (I know people who've been in that situation), and there's no relief in sight.
The list is endless, but you get the point. If you are "the comforter", "the counselor", what CAN you say? Is not their despair a normal reaction? Most people in such tragic situations, if acting relatively un-affected, are in serious denial, which is NOT a good natural defense mechanism. It's an unstable state and will inevitably come crashing down, often catastrophically.
Is despair good? No. But are we all immune from it? No.
Do we sometimes have to accept despair as permanent? In some cases of extreme and/or prolonged distress, especially in those who don't react well to medications, yes, it may be permanent.
If you disagree, what alternative solutions do you propose?
(These questions are, of course, open to anyone who wishes to respond.)
rebecca
From what I remember of those studies, depressed people score more accurately when asked about their abilities etc, but not because they are being realistic, but because they are thinking "I suck". Well, not in those words exactly. Essentially, it's an irrational process that can lead to greater accuracy in some cases.
So, they can report their driving ability more accurately than a happy person, but don't have a realistic perception on the whole.
Deckard, melonkali is my wife and asked for my comments on this subject. I don't know how much respect Maslow's hierarchy of needs retains, but it suggests that people in lives of desparation (e.g., despair) lose all sense of dignity.
The people of Haiti come quickly to mind here.
I just found out that depression is an evolutionary trait that made humans survive.
You could imagine a time in history where there are two species (that could both potentially evolve into humans): one that had the ability of being depressed, the other that doesn't have such ability.
The one that had the ability of being depressed persisted its environment.
It's all about depression.
Do you have a reference, or have I misunderstood, and is this a theory that you are working on yourself?