@Violent Meme,
Violent Meme;73892 wrote:Why do I get the feeling your friends and girlfriend hold you in-contempt...?
I know for a fact when somebody argues against me that I plan to win every time. And if they retreat from the argument then they have seceded to my point-of-view. And that point-of-view dominates. But this is yet another form of violence in-itself. Some people just have better perspectives than others, and, I do not think that arguing really-solves any issues, like I said.
If anything, arguing only-delays the inevitable...which is violence.
:shifty:
note: use of the 2nd person is directed at a hypothetical participant in an argument here.
If someone retreats from an argument there it is not often that they have changed their minds to your point of view. One cannot argue another person out of their opinion, the other person has to change their opinion. Normally when a person leaves an argument it is because they are tired of trying to convince you that they are right because they realize that they cant. Not that your argument is so stellar that they can't find flaw, only that you are are not prepared to listen to the other person's argument because you have come loaded for bear.
Meme:
Like I assume that we will do here, the thread will die, you will likely consider yourself victorious in some way, and everyone else will go about their merry, still believing what they beleived before this devil's advocate OP.
The sad fact of the matter is that most people stop arguing because they think the other person is a fool and don't feel like wasting their time, and the violence of trying to force an argument creates more problems than it could ever solve. The old maxim comes to mind, "you catch more flies with honey"