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Now I have it. I figured it out after walking home from a friends after having some beer and movie. yum. but i couldn't get on the computer till this morning. :-(
I did use the 4 v 4 clue. kinda wish I didn't have that so I could have figured it out without help.
nonetheless
3 Measures if at first weigh the scale is balanced:
Start off with any four balls on the left side of the scale. Then put any 4 of the other 8 on the scale. Now if the scale
is balanced then we know the odd ball is in the 4 that are not on the scale at all. To solve from there. You take 2 of the 4 that were left over and put them on the left side of the scale. On the right side of the scale you place 2 that we measured earlier and they balanced as these are normal. If the scale is balanced then it is one of the 2 that we didn't put on the scale and we can take the ones on the left off and the ones on the right off. Take the 2 left and put one on the scale with a normal ball. If the scale is balanced then it is the ball in your hand that you didn't use. If it is unbalanced then it is the one you put on the left.
If the scale is not balanced then do this for the 2nd weigh.
Remember this situation has 4 balls on the left and 4 on the right and the scale is unbalanced. So the odd ball out is either on the left or the right of the scale. We still have 4 balls on the side that we can use for accurate measurement.
Before weighing the 2nd time:
take 1 on the left and switch it with one on the right
it doesn't matter which you would just have to remember which you did switch.
take 3 on the left (excluding the 1 that you switched from the right) and switch them off the scale with 3 that we know are normal (of the 4 that we ignored in the first measure.)
Now we weigh:
If the after 2nd weigh the scale changes which side is up and which side is down:
Then we know it is one of the 2 we switched sides with. (Remember we switched 2 balls. One from the left with one from the right)
Your third weigh in this situation would be:
Take one of the 2 balls that we moved and put it by itself on the left. Weigh it with a normal ball. If the scale is unbalanced then it is the ball on the left. If the scale is balanced it is the other ball of the 2 that we didn't weigh.
If when after 2nd weigh and the scale stays in the same position. (doesn't matter if left is high or right is high just if it stays the same):
Then we know it is one of the 3 that we took off from the left.
We then have to remember when we weighed the first 4 (for the first weigh) whether the left side was higher or lower. If it was lower. Then we know the odd ball is heavier. If higher then lighter.
Third weigh:
We then pick 2 of the 3 that we had taken off from the left earlier and put 2 (doesn't matter which) on opposite sides. If balanced we know its the one we didn't weigh.
Now we determined right above whether or not the ball is lighter or heavier.
So if the scale is unbalanced then we just pick the side that has the lighter/heavier ball in it. It is that simple.
If when after 2nd weigh and the scale does not change its position (meaning it is still unbalanced but hasn't moved)
Then we know that the ball is one of the 3 on the right side.
We then have to remember when we weighed the first 4 (for the first weigh) whether the right side was higher or lower. If it was lower. Then we know the odd ball is heavier. If higher then lighter.
Third weigh:
We then pick 2 of the 3 that we have on the right and put 2 (doesn't matter which) on opposite sides. If balanced we know its the one we didn't weigh.
Now we determined right above whether or not the ball is lighter or heavier.
So if the scale is unbalanced then we just pick the side that has the lighter/heavier ball in it. It is that simple.
Come on guys isn't this clear enough?
This has to be right. let me know if you see an error.
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my original plan after 20 or so min of thought.
take 2 on the left off, put 2 on the right on the left and add 2 normal balls to the right.
you can solve it from that if either the scale changes sides or balances but not if if stays the same. :-(
After thinking about it for a while I realized you can't end up having to determine from 2 balls left for the 3rd weigh. but i thought that solving from 3 balls was impossible. then i figured out that you can find out which one is heavier and use that.