@spacemonkey phil,
As Uncle Fester said: She's is a girl, and I'm a boy... We got nothing in common...
You will do better with the boys if you learn about sports and smile at every stupid thing they say... Nothing so intimidates a man as a girl with brains, unless it is a girl with brains and a thirty eight, or a straight edged razor in her purse...I suggest you travel with all three...