@cats4kiss,
Sara:
Not to mean this as demeaning at all, but improving your English is something I would suggest. Then forget all about your looks. And try and go for becoming intellectual. That will devastate men, if you're looks don't manage quite to do that. Intelligence in a woman, and integrity, and honesty, are the most attractive things men look for in women. And keep up with the forum as one step toward that end.