@mischka,
This passage sounds vaguely familiar, but after a quick look through, I can't find anything like it in my books. I am sure that the passage is there because it sounds so familiar.
I also tried, unsuccessfully, to google different sections of your translation. My guess is that your rendering is different enough for the search engine to miss published versions.
Catchabula knows Dutch, and is remarkably well read - perhaps he can take a look at the original link and help you out? In the mean time, I'll keep looking through my Schopenhauer. You might look through
Parerga and Paralipomena - the passage most likely comes from that work, especially one of the two essays "The Wisdom of Life" and "Counsels and Maxims".