@Twirlip,
Hello fellow thinkers
Firstly, one must define what it means to be to be a christian. My closest friend is one, and completely agrees that, in his journey through the vast realm of christianity, they are few and far between.
His definition is ; One who totally dedicates themself to the teachings of Jesus, and the practices and processes thereof.
The conflict he goes through when I place him under the semantic cosh by revealing the hypocrisy and contradictory formula incorporated within the gospels and following letters is, very confusing to him - But he takes it on the chin, and delves deeper into his chosen doctrine. Which I commend.
Nevertheless, it is only those who have been unable to deal with the realities and traumas in their own lives, who lean toward doctrine - The greater the trauma... The greater the desire for guidance.
Fear is the key, Doubt is the trigger.
Have a fantastic everything...