So why should we give when the necessity for charity is an obnoxious reality.

Why should you oppose the need to give without requesting.

Why should those who need be at the mercy of the vagaries of public opinion? dont tell me you dont have a certain self satisfying feeling when you put your bucks in the bucket.

I don't feel self satisfying because when i give someone a few bucks on the street then that means I can't super-size my meal I don't want a small soda I want the big one! No fair!

Of course it's self satisfying. Does that mean we should cease to be charitable? That's a horrible excuse.