@Scottydamion,
Scottydamion;130657 wrote:Bingo! lol. Although I don't think I'd ever say out loud to a woman that what they desire is a direct result of a selfish desire for their future children and themselves... unless I was already married to her! (I've had to resist saying this to past gfs, even though it applies just as much to me even if I'm more conscious of it).
Like you said, you can make that joke after the ring is in place. (Really you should make it before, but not on the first date, right?) I used to quote Schopenhauer when arguing with my lady. His essay "On Women" is hilariously sexist. He's over the top, of course, but he does land with a punch here and there. And yet Sophia is a goddess, not a god. Perhaps because Woman represents the sub-rational/transrational. At least for men. Do you know Carl Jung? Don't view it as mystical. He treats of the mystical, but his method is post-Kantian. He systematizes his experience. It's as proven as it is persuasive. (And no more...)
The
anima and animus in
Carl Jung's school of
analytical psychology, are the two primary anthropomorphic archetypes of the unconscious mind, as opposed to both the theriomorphic and 'inferior'-function of the shadow archetypes, as well as the abstract symbol sets that formulate the archetype of the Self. The anima and animus are described by Jung as elements of his theory of the collective unconscious, a domain of the unconscious that transcends the personal psyche. In the
unconscious of the male, it finds expression as a feminine inner personality:
anima; equivalently, in the unconscious of the female, it is expressed as a
masculine inner personality:
animus.
It can be identified as the totality of the unconscious feminine psychological qualities that a male possesses; or the masculine ones possessed by the female. The anima is an archetype of the collective unconscious and not an aggregate of a man's mother, sisters, aunts, and teachers though these aspects of the personal unconscious can 'contaminate' the archetypes.
The anima is one of the most significant autonomous
complexes of all. It manifests itself by appearing as figures in dreams as well as by influencing a man's interactions with women and his attitudes toward them, and vice versa for females and the animus. Jung said that confronting one's
shadow self is an "apprentice-piece," while confronting one's anima is the masterpiece. Jung viewed the anima process as being one of the sources of creative ability.