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Pre-marital sex is, though possibly awkward the morning after, wholly natural.
By some definition of religion it is actually less of sin than masturbation,
and either one or the other should be done as studies show that not doing so would be physically damaging.
Now gays, theres one grudge that I never really got. If you'd like to explain the whole 'dont be gay' ideal to me, that would be just grand.
It is only "wholly natural" if you presuppose religion as false.
There is a measurement scale of 'bad' to 'very bad' sins? hmmm what definition of religion are you referring to.
link me please
True, but someone must presuppose it as false, if only for an alternate view. Even some religious people might see it from the viewpoint of atheists for "it's the mark of an educated mind to entertain a thought without believing it", isn't it?
To Aquinas' Natural Law theory, the one Catholics seem to abide by to this day. Premarital sex may be wrong in their eyes, but to Aquinas it may lead to reproduction of the species and thus fulfilling the purpose of genitalia, glorifying god.
Right, yet just by viewing it from an alternate view you can not come to the concrete conclusion that it is "wholly natural" except maybe from that view. So then your left with proving the validty of that view to back up your ideas associated with that view.
How does it glorify God if God has told you not to do so? God creates genitalia and with it rules. God creates things that could be used as weapons and he still has rules against using them as weapons. Do you have a quote or something from Thomas?
First link doesn't work. I read through the second one and I must have missed where it says: "and either one or the other should be done as studies show that not doing so would be physically damaging."
Maybe it was in the first link but I'd really like to read about how it is damaging.
And for the whole worrying about something is loving them, well i see ur point, but if God is in control, and youre worrying about things that you dont know, then what does that say about the person you are supposed to love the most. If shows you insufficiency of God. You dont trust Him enough... God gave us things as already said, genitalia and loved ones, but what sin is is taking the things God gave us and abusing them, going to far with them.
Not necessarily, but the general idea comes with the theory. His idea of natural law means that it would be wrong to use something for something other than it's natural purpose, otherwise why would god have given it to us? To use it for it's correct purpose is to follow the path god meant for its usage, thus glorifying what he gave us. If you have qualms with it, don't bring them to me, instead direct them at a dead monk and the catholic church. The analogy of weapons would be flawed because, by natural logic, god did not create a sword, we did. According to Aquinas all that could be used as a weapon has instead another purpose that is meant to be followed.
all moral views for Christians come from the Bible, not man. Man wrote them down, but along with innerrancy, inspritation is really close. God wrote the Bible through men, thats why its innerant. Without a moral compass given to us by God we could not have any morals whatsoever.
I would rather state truths as truths, if you wouldn't mind. Whether they are facts is something completely different. Pre-marital sex is definitely known to help bring couples together, it promotes unification between them and helps them make each other, for want of a better term, happy. It is also a way of finding out if two people are compatible, for if they did not have sex until after marriage and found out that their tastes were not in order, per se, then they could slowly realise over time that marriage for them was a mistake. Marriage may not entirely be about sex, but to some it is key, a sign of showing love between the two, and if this compatability is taken then the relationship could fall apart.
yet all men are born atheist...
When you say that their tastes are not in order do you mean that they would think: "ahh you know Julie really knew how to do things right." The problem with that is that intercourse with Julie was premarital (unless she was your divorced wife) Your argument seems to hinge on differences in opinions during sex will make or break a relationship. "You know Joe I don't really like that position, since I can't ask you to stop doing it because that would make to much sense I'm just going to get a divorce."......
Also I didn't know that sex was a requirement for happiness in a relationship.
No men are not born atheist.
An Atheist: "the doctrine or belief that there is no God"
A child can not have a belief that there is no God without first having heard of God. At best you could say that all men are born agnostic.
I meant more along the lines of "Wow, you're into urination? Like really into it?" kind of awkward moment. I didn't really mean that it was a requirement for happiness in all relationships, but you must admit that in the modern world in which we live, a lot of relationships do go down that road and in most cases if the sex is bad, things go wrong, if it's good then things go better. Couples can also find out what they don't like about each other sexually, and help each other work around it, which can only bring them closer.
I violate god's moral law simply because I do not consider it law at all!
The law in China may be to only have one child, but I consider myself able to have as many as I want.
Ok but the thread was talking about why should you violate it if you consider it law.
And in China you will get punished for it. (you have to pay a large tax for extra kids) unless you have twins then your just lucky. I'm not saying that you have no choice other then to obey God's morals. Sure you can disagree well then you have to accept the consequences just like in China.
Was it? Oh, sorry. If I did consider it law, which at some point I did, then of course I would not violate it. Law would exist for the reason of governing man and keeping him in line, otherwise chaos would ensue etc. etc apocalyptic messages. But why should we consider it law? It's written in the bible, of course, but as are instructions that followers must be circumcised, that being a practice that hasn't exactly carried on for most.
Indeed you would be, but the fact of the matter is that neither you nor I are in China. We can think we are in China, and must abide by Chinese law, and we may have messangers who say they are from China and that we must obey the laws they bring or China will invade and kill us, but that does not make Chinese law followable for everybody. Is it wrong that typing that only made me hungry?
Assuming there is a god, if I, as a human, have moral convictions that differ from the Word of God in whatever form, why should I change these convictions to fit in with the Word of God?