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Should they be pitied [...]?
Should they be [...] persecuted [...]?
Should they be [...] pardoned?
Describe what you think a schizophrenic is?
The doctors probably are lying.
Your other friend has been brainwashed by extreme right-wing ideology. Perhaps he's been reading Thomas Szasz. He should be medicated at once.
In practical terms, I have no idea what to do with someone who's schizophrenic, other than (just rules of thumb): (1) don't ignore the problem; (2) don't trust doctors to know what they're doing; (3) research all prescribed medications; (4) try to find a support group, for yourself and/or your friend and/or their family; (5) expect them to abide by the same standards of rationality and decent behaviour as anyone else; (6) also expect to learn from him just as you would from anyone else, don't pretend to know it all just because you are 'normal' in comparison (I'm not implying that you do, and the fact that you are asking these questions speaks well of you); (7) don't force normal social conventions on them, except those implied by (5), or for their own safety in a hostile and uncomprehending world; (8) read Arieti, or any other good book you can find (be critical!); (9) don't believe anything I tell you, or anything else anybody tells you on the Internet; (10) talk to your friend (if he'll let you); (11) try to find out what he thinks he needs from you (not what I or any other random Internet kook thinks, or what any doctor thinks); (12) trust your own judgement; (13) try not to let him drive you mad (he's almost bound to try, knowingly or unknowingly), and keep up your other contacts; (14) see if some form of supportive individual counselling is available; (15) be very wary of 'psychotherapy', especially 'group therapy'; (16) consider the possibility of finding a 'therapeutic community' for him (but I've had absolutely terrible experiences of two of those, so be very wary of them, too - again, use your own judgement, it can't be said often enough); (17) try to be as sane as you can for him, when he can't be sane for himself (he'll probably be relying on you for this, whether you or he know it or not, and the strain on you could be enormous, so take care, especially take good care of yourself).
I have a friend who has been told he has schizophrenia he takes his pills he deals with it, but he still does not accept it. In fact he thinks the doctors are all lying to him.
I have a friend who has been told he has schizophrenia he takes his pills he deals with it, but he still does not accept it. I have another friend who said schizophrenia is for those who cant take responsibility for their own lives or actions, which i would agree with but this inability to 'take responsibility' is not always a conscious choice or preferance over reality, it is an inability.
What are your thoughts on this?
What do you think it is? behaviour or disease?
Inability or excuse?
Describe what you think a schizophrenic is?
What are your interpretations?
Should they be pitied, persecuted, pardoned?
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:perplexed:I think it's shocking how material some states of mind are discibed. I faith-fully took my medication, mainly because my mother took the same. In both my families we learned to co-operate, but keep our own believes.
I am not a scizo, but I have met a few and did go to therapy with my friends. I am Moon-Struck my dictonary tells me. I am not para-noid; I am menthaly sane at the moment. I just check Everything till I decide on important issues.
It's extra hard to keep in thouch with friends and family once you are labeled. Try talking to your local bank to pay for the damages !
I am glad to spill my mind on your PF
Schizophrenia - is a disconnection with your higher mind which causes a person to become fearful of being here (in this universe on earth). Humans are not advanced enough to deal with this spiritual problem yet. So they (the schizophrenic) need to be loved accepted and helped in any way that you can. Drugs are also a good way to lessen the side effects of this spiritual difficulty.
Isn't one of the symptoms of schizophrenia the kind of paranoia that would make someone think "all the doctors are lying to me"?
I think it's kind of an umbrella term though.
Best lesson I ever learned from someone who had Schizophenia (or should that be Schizophenia had them?)...was that when it appears they are not listening to you it it's so much that as it is they are listening to others only they can hear. I taught be to be more patient.
Now how do I let them know there is no reason for me to be a part of that which they fear?
Good pun!
I knew someone like that, who listened to and argued with the spirits of "fascists" all the time. She would have this seraphic grin on her face.
On one occasion she proved that she could hear some of my own deepest thoughts at least as clearly as I could hear them myself.
By sharing the fear (preferably without becoming a patient). At least, that's what I would find most helpful myself, but I'm not schizophrenic, so mu guess might be wrong. (As I mentioned before, when a close friend became paranoid, I was to him only another part of the conspiracy, so I obviously didn't do a good job of reassuring him.) If my own case is anything to go by (and of course it may not be), worries which for most people are, at worst, difficult abstract philosophical questions are for me direct daily concrete threats to my existence, so studying philosophy (perhaps particularly existentialist philosophy) might help in understanding such a person (a bit).