@Infovore,
that my 'children' would be much as my 2 year old is... in wonder at all she sees, eats and drinks what she needs when she needs it, expresses her feelings (good or bad) openly and truly, is not afraid to laugh or cry or hug or push away, has so much of a lack of a conscious selfishness that she says anyone's name except her own, does not talk in big fancy words empty of feeling (never has anyone said 'bicycle water with such feeling
) she is free within the safe, but often invisible, protection of my hand, but as she is able I allow her space to grow...