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Fri 7 Aug, 2009 02:13 pm
Hi everybody ,,,how are you i wish all of u are fine
Forum members please i need your comments
People who around me always call me with [complicated girl] [strange girl] I cannot understand why? maybe because I am not social but not introvert ,,, but I deal with people normally like anyone ,,, I am very reticent, quiet I don't like to talk to much ,,,, but I not always quiet I talk to some extend ,, the good things in my view are bad in people view ,,, and the bad things in my view are good in their view ,,, I very worry and upset I don't know am I normal or not ?
@Arya,
You're perfectly normal, I was like you and still am, your confidence will grow as you do. There is nothing wrong with you, all those things you mention are fine qualities, you're just different and that is a good thing.
@Arya,
Honestly, I think many young philosophers feel like you. I'm also a bit strange in other peoples eyes, and sometimes it really hurts, and sometimes I don't really care. As long as you are happy with yourself it's okey. Most people are not like you and me, but that doesn't make it a bad thing. You might grow out of it, you might not, but I don't think that it matters. But life has taught me that sometimes it's best just to be quiet and agree with others. Just try to learn the social "laws" and work with, or around, them.
@Arya,
You're welcome, it is a pleasure. Im sending you a friend request. I would be pleased if you accept. Thank you.
@Arya,
Being different is a gift, not a curse. Be happy =)
And if you dont like the idea of being different, just remember that sanity is relative. You can just claim that the world is weird, not you =)
@Arya,
Arya;81790 wrote:Hi everybody ,,,how are you i wish all of u are fine
Forum members please i need your comments
People who around me always call me with [complicated girl] [strange girl] I cannot understand why? maybe because I am not social but not introvert ,,, but I deal with people normally like anyone ,,, I am very reticent, quiet I don't like to talk to much ,,,, but I not always quiet I talk to some extend ,, the good things in my view are bad in people view ,,, and the bad things in my view are good in their view ,,, I very worry and upset I don't know am I normal or not ?
Hello Arya.
I can assure you that you are perfectly normal. Who's to say you're not? When people call me 'strange', 'weird', 'gay' (I hate it when people use 'gay' like that.), etc. I just shake it off and live my day. If the 'people' bother you just ignore them. And, you know, you can start your day over whenever you'd like; as my math teacher always says. I'm like you, I don't talk that much either.
XX. Remember that it is not he who reviles you or strikes you, who insults you, but it is your opinion about these things as being insulting. When then a man irritates you, you must know that it is your own opinion which has irritated you. Therefore especially try not to be carried away by the appearance. For if you once gain time and delay, you will more easily master yourself.
-Epictetus.
The Enchiridon
@Arya,
Arya;81790 wrote:Hi everybody ,,,how are you i wish all of u are fine
Forum members please i need your comments
People who around me always call me with [complicated girl] [strange girl] I cannot understand why? maybe because I am not social but not introvert ,,, but I deal with people normally like anyone ,,, I am very reticent, quiet I don't like to talk to much ,,,, but I not always quiet I talk to some extend ,, the good things in my view are bad in people view ,,, and the bad things in my view are good in their view ,,, I very worry and upset I don't know am I normal or not ?
I think it's because you're posting on this forum!
:a-ok:
No, but seriously, I've long noticed a trend towards the ideal American femininity being mainly concentrated on looks rather than brains; the ideal beauty in our society these days is perceived as somebody with a nice rack but very low IQ. If you can hold forth in intellectual conversation, if you have developed complex, well-thought-out viewpoints on matters, if you hold to a system of ethics you've developed yourself, these are impressive feats, and well beyond the ken of the so-called 'pretty women', and (in my experience, at least, speaking as a fellow nerd) when
they don't understand something oftentmes they respond by being callow and boorish. Don't let it get you down--always be yourself and people who like you for who you really are will be attracted to you. These are the friends you'll become thick as thieves with.
P.S. Chinese?
Note to Justin (if I forget): Some emoticon images aren't coming up under the Compose Message box.
@Arya,
if i had to care about all the crap ppl talk to me about or tell me about I would have virtually eaten myself inside out. I suggest live ur life they way you feel happy. ppl well always talk, you can shut the gate of hell but you can never shut the mouth of the ppl around u.
@Arya,
Arya;81819 wrote:manored
the problem here is that people not seeing me complicated because i am diffrent they are looking that from nagtive side ,,, i feel like that i came from another planet ,,,,, anyway thank u brother
Nevermind them, people that dont like you are usually people you wouldnt like either =)
@Arya,
Arya;81948 wrote:Caroline
This sound to me we have identical personality
Yes I thought so too!!!!!!!!!!!
[QUOTE=Arya;81948],, but why don't they leave people believe on what they believe why they are throwing these names on me :s :s :s[/quote]
Because some people are not very nice or they've got problems and take it out on others, I can assure you Arya it's not you.
@Arya,
You are very welcome Arya.
I'm glad to have helped.
Sticks and stones....
Peace
@Arya,
What I really like about this forum is that people, most of the time, are so friendly!
It's nice to know that I'm not the only philosopher left on the face of the earth
@mister kitten,
mister kitten;81849 wrote:Hello Arya.
I can assure you that you are perfectly normal. Who's to say you're not? When people call me 'strange', 'weird', 'gay' (I hate it when people use 'gay' like that.), etc. I just shake it off and live my day. If the 'people' bother you just ignore them. And, you know, you can start your day over whenever you'd like; as my math teacher always says. I'm like you, I don't talk that much either.
XX. Remember that it is not he who reviles you or strikes you, who insults you, but it is your opinion about these things as being insulting. When then a man irritates you, you must know that it is your own opinion which has irritated you. Therefore especially try not to be carried away by the appearance. For if you once gain time and delay, you will more easily master yourself.
-Epictetus. The Enchiridon
You are probably right, but really, you cannot tell from what you know.
@kennethamy,
kennethamy;82087 wrote:You are probably right, but really, you cannot tell from what you know.
Can we be sure of anything from what we know? If I knew Arya in person and she came to me proposing this problem I'd say the same thing as I did before.
I wonder... why go after me Kenneth? Hmmmmmmm?
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