@Joe,
Joe wrote:hmmmm\
I think it is easy for people to make a joke out of fear. What is not easy is taking the bit of honesty from a joke. What i mean by the honesty is the underlying current that crosses into an individual's morals and logic.
When a white man remarks a joke about a black man, it is his attempt to understand why he feels different. He uses this joke and looks at his feelings and thoughts. This is fact. But, most of the time we move on from the joke because the fear battles those thoughts and feelings. Thats why i think Humor is groundbreaking everyday. What we call "Dark" Humor, tends to indulge deeper into what is fearful. For the sake of Humor, Jokes represent the most direct feelings with the most indirect thoughts. Vocally speaking from an individual.
So I dint think you can take a healthy look at a joke and place it on a see saw of useful, un-useful, good, bad, etc... It is a human tool of language that is used in different situations for different reasons, whether you like them or not, and so jokes are absolutely deep and philosophical. Is that good or bad? I would say neither.
Dya think??? Because I never see anyone thinking much about humor, but using humor to escape thinking...Its like the story about George Burns and Opra Winfry, where he was braggin and saying I told you what a man I was... And she said: well I helped. and he said they only reason I had you do that was because the last time I slept with a Nword, she stole my wallet.
There might be some underlying philosophy to it...I saw the same thing in a poem once where a black guy thinking he was passing for white, denied his black-ness, became educated, and successful, and lived only around white people and when it was over and he was dead everyone said he was a credit to his race... Clarence Thomas hates blacks, goes to nascar races in a camper, hangs out with hillbillies, and votes white...Do you think anyone sees him as white???
I think people justify their prejudice toward blacks by making jokes about their intelligence, sexuality, anatomy, or thievery... If the have a choice of looking at the person or the characature of the person they will take the characature every time... There is a lot of things I don't like about black culture, no joke about it... But when it got to be my turn to pull one out of a river because he was drunk and jumped in after a basketball, I did... But when I told my girlfriend what had happened, because she had been raped by a black guy (Oh, another joke...Ghetto fore play: Stay cool, bich, I got a knife) with a knife; She said: Great, let's get a dumptruck full of basketballs and dump it off the grand river bridge... The thing is, I looked the guy up later after he was released from the hospital, and it turned out this average looking black man had very pretty white wife, and a very nice half white daughter; and I thought how awful it would have been for them to learn that a white man had stood on that dock and watched their husband/father die without so much as getting his feet wet... He said he never saw my face, but he knew I was white... He must have thought God had sent a white angel to pull him off the bottom of that dirty old river...
Whatever the joke, and no matter how demeaning it is to them, You cannot let it prevent you from seeing them as human beings and as entitled to their lives as ourselves...