@Didymos Thomas,
This is most assuredly NOT what you're looking for, but I "see" the story The Little Prince and its various "lessons." The question itself always reminds me of the boa constrictor from the outside and the boa constrictor from the inside.
Now that I think on it, and the conversation that otherwise went on here, I think that my response is fairly close to what you were looking for, with regards to people having "an answer." I just don't have the words for it as much as an example.
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Of course, that makes me wonder: when you ask others that question...depending on the other factors in asking it...maybe something comes to mind, they just can't really express it.
*shrug* Just a thought.