From a logical standpoint (consider John Nash's Game Theory, to those mathematicians amongst us) what would be the perquisites and cons of each approach? Would it be wise and beneficial to ask her out to a specific place or merely in general and wait to go from there?
I have seen so many threads on various forums with a similar theme of uncertainly about affairs of the heart, simply because this above all else is what is most important to people, personally.
Never mind the origin of the Universe, what to do at Starbucks every Tuesday & Thursday from 2:00-2:45 pm?
"..... to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them? To die: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wish'd."
(Hamlet, Act 3 Sc. I.)
This is where the bounds of our nutshell are put to the test:
"There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy."
I quote from Shakespeare because I know of nothing better to help with. The response to enquiries of the sort always amounts to more or less the same advice: your game, your prize is for you yourself to win, not for me to win for you.
This is because affairs of the heart are very much a test of the mettle, the personal karma, the honesty and confidence, the moral and psychological predispostion, one's chosen purpose in life, each to his own to try and to know.