@Soul Brother,
Soul Brother;156674 wrote:Fido, perhaps what you are trying to convey is that I should write not as I speak but as others speak, because in actuality this is the way I speak both mentally and in verbal conversation therefore I write this way. you implied that this is my problem, but in actual sense to me my thoughts are not the slightest bit confused as nor my writing, and I can perfectly read what I have written as though I have I have just said it. this outlined suggests to me that the problem you emphasized is in fact not on mine but your behalf since it was your failure to interpret the correct meaning I have assigned to my choice of words.
contrary to that I realize that it is ME that is trying to communicate a message that is intended for other people to apprehend, therefore it is MY responsibility to make certain that the message being conveyed is lucid and unambiguous, you have reminded me of this importance and for this I thank you.
Why would you write as others speak unless you are trying to say what they are saying??? No; people usually speak better than they write... They pause when they should pause, they order their ideas correctly, and they stop when they should stop... Writing does not have the advantage of the spoken word, which is that a lot of non verbal communication goes on apace, with noddings of the head, smiles, frowns, grunts, shrugs or shaking of the head...Still, writing has a great advantage in that no matter what you write, no one is going to punch you in the nose for it, usually because their arm is too short even if they are so inclined...
If you are an American, consider reading some of the writings or speeches of Lincoln beginning with the Gettysburg address... He thought the speech a failure for its effect, but at second glance everyone saw it for the pearl of great value that it was... Your choice of words and ordering of ideas should not take value from your thought, but should communicate your thought...
Not to deny what I already said, I am terrible in person, and rotten with verbal communicaton... If a woman has a nice breasts I often find my eyes resting on them -so people may consider me a tit head, and if the person I am talking to has some great deformity I find it growing larger the more I try not to look at it until it fills the room and I must flee... I can't sing or play an instrament, so writing is almost the only form of communication left to me; but again, people struggle with writing who do not struggle with speech, so they should write as they speak...