Re: Why?
max wrote:Please leave me and members of the family alone.
Why do you want to always attack us?
What do you mean by attacking?
Is documenting the atrocities that were committed against a little boy an attack?
Is it an attack when I say that I was sexually, physically and psychologically abused when I was a child in The Family and I want justice for that?
Mark, I used to be in the Family, too. I prayed against The Family's enemies. I defended The Family whenever I had the chance. I was a dedicated, true-blue Family member.
And then I slowly began to realize that I was misinformed--that I was enraged at The Family's supposed enemies without realizing what it was they were saying.
I thought they were against freedom of religion. I was wrong.
I thought they wanted to take us away from our families. I was wrong.
I thought they wanted to do us physical harm. I was wrong.
What they did want--and what I want now as well--is for amends to be made and justice to be served (the legal way).
After leaving the Family, I came to realize how many other Family children went through the same experiences I did. I came to realize how many of us have been hurt by the Family. I also witnessed first-hand how Family leaders are not interested in making amends with those of us they have hurt.
They prefer to call us liars and say we're possessed by blood-drenched demons. We, the children who pounded the pavements to raise the rent for our homes and sent 10% of everything we earned to Family leaders. We, the children who unquestioningly dedicated ourselves to their cause. And they call us liars because we no longer follow them.
Do you understand how much that hurts?
This is not about "attacking", Mark. This is not about "us vs. them". This is about setting things right and making amends. This is about the victims of undeniable abuse and their road to healing.
The Family's tag line is "Making a difference". Do you know how much of a difference it would make if they offered their own children a sincere and unconditional apology and did whatever they could to make amends?