i think it should already be possible to notify the webmasters when a family member is no longer associated with tfi and trying to start out fresh, etc. and being listed on the xmember site is hurting their ability to find work, etc. and i would imagine, as long as the person isn't an 'abuser' who deserves to be highlighted forever as such, they'd probably do everything possible to minimize the damage....at the very least people in the know could probably logon and suggest updated information about them...i know for a fact that's already possible.