I was in the family for 15 years!! I had 7 of my 9 children in the family! We left 21 years ago. But the damage to our children is as strong as it ever was! How do we help them? What have other parents who have left the family done to help their children over come the wrong and hurtfull things that was done to them both doctrinaly and physically!! The pain for them and for us is ever present!! No matter how we try to press on and pass our experiences !! Any help would be appreciated!!